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If you're within a billion mile radius of this event, I suggest you go.  I'll be there, that's for sure.  A chance to see Jeff Turner live is never to be missed and the Women's Council of Realtors® have worked hard to put this together.  If you're a Realtor® in San Antonio, there is no excuse for not being here (well, maybe a closing - but I'd rearrange that even).

Congratulations to the WCR in San Antonio for bringing in such an amazing guest.  Can't wait to see Jeff.

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2 commentsMatt Stigliano • August 27 2010 11:36AM

Can A Brain Be Over Stimulated? (Tom Ferry Success Summit 2010 - Anaheim, CA)

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I'm at Tom Ferry's Success Summit right now.  I'm in my hotel.  I'm at my computer.  My brain is dancing around in a spinning motion at about 5,000,000 RPM.  It's not a bad thing.  Not at all.  I have a kajillion blog posts I want to write, telling you all of the thoughts flying through my head right now.

But I'm not going to.  Not yet.

Instead, I wanted to take a few moments to thank Tom Ferry, his staff, the ActiveRain staff, and everyone I've met in the last two days and all those that were in the room when Tom called me up onstage.  It was kind of weird being onstage for something that didn't involve beer and loud guitars.

First off, Tom Ferry and ActiveRain for allowing me the opportunity to win the coaching with Tom.  It has been a great experience and Tom has been phenomenal at digging deep enough in a short period of time to really understand me, my problems, and offer me action-based solutions and ideas.  ActiveRain, you know I'm grateful for the opportunity, but just in case you missed it - thank you, I truly appreciate it.  I am a thankful kind of guy, but seriously, you gave me this chance to speak with Tom directly and although I have lots of cool moments in my life to thank you for, this is one of the big ones that I'll be talking about when people ask "How did you do it?"  This is not the end of my story by any means.

Secondly (but not really in any sort of real order), Tom Ferry and his staff.  Lauren and John helped me put my trip together to come out here and although I haven't bumped into John yet, I did get a chance to briefly talk with Lauren.  Two excellent people who (I'm sure) Tom is glad to have at his side.  As for Tom, I actually have some personal blog posts to write about the man I once wrote that I hated.  I'll be getting to them soon enough I hope, but I do want to say this; Tom has shown himself to be a man who can motivate me, keep my interest, and truly make me feel like he has not only a business-level passion for this, but a personal-level passion as well.  Say what you want about coaching, but I can be the biggest cynic at times and I'm not feeling so cynical these days.  There's a lot of very personal things that I have shared with Tom over the time we've worked together and it's a two way street.  Tom is not afraid to call me out on the B.S., but never forgets to find a spark that he can push either.  Whatever it is, it is working.  Am I a super-successful-number-one-on-the-westside-agent?  Not yet.  (Then again, I'll never be "#1 on the Westside" - but that's a whole different story - agents, stop the sales pitch of "I'm #1" - the consumer doesn't care- they want to know what you're going to do for them, not how much money you're making.  My personal opinion, but something Tom mentioned today (and Stefan Swanepoel backed with numbers).Tom - a huge thank you.  I know that my success will be the thanks (that and maybe my entrance into the Inner Circle, haha) for you, but you've really changed some things for me and I can't say it enough - thank you.

Lastly (but never leastly), everyone that I've met and chatted with over the past few days, anyone that was in the room when Tom invited me up onstage (the applause brought me back to my rock and roll days a bit), and anyone who's been watching, following, commenting, or sharing their stories with me recently.  I don't think everyone knows just what occurred when I wrote the "Rock Bottom" post that Tom read excerpts from.  It started as a way for me to be accountable in front of the ActiveRain membership.  It was a dare/challenge from Tom.  He told me what he wanted it to be about what I wanted to accomplish, but I don't think he knew exactly what he was going to get out of me.  I know I didn't.  When I wrote it, I wrote it as if I were talking to myself from a distance.  I wanted to tell myself to shut up, stop with the excuses, and get to work.  The words poured out (a lot of them - it happens a lot to me).

I wrote the post and hit publish (I rarely pre-write, re-write, and correct - it's all a sub-conscious flow when I write).  Soon, the comments came.  About fifty comments in, I realized something had happened.  The post wasn't about me anymore.  I realized through the comments, emails, tweets, phone calls, and voice mails that you and I struggle with the same things.  I just chose to tell my story on ActiveRain.  Maybe there's a few bits here and there that are different, but I began to see agents in a new light.  And after being onstage with Tom today, I spoke to quite a few agents who shared their story and thoughts with me.  Some very personal stories.  I won't name names, but there is someone out there who I spoke to for quite awhile immediately after the last session and I felt like I was talking to myself in the mirror (except myself had much longer hair and looks much better in a dress than I ever would).  It was almost uncanny.  We all have our problems, hangups, difficulties, stumbling blocks - call them whatever you want - we're not all that different in that regard.  What sets any of us apart is what we do when we see that we're stuck.  Many of you are part of the process of helping me get "unstuck."  You may not even know you helped, but you have, so you too deserve some thanks.

Now get out there and start shaking that apple tree...

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8 commentsMatt Stigliano • August 26 2010 12:57AM

Joe Ferrara: God Takes His Best Work Back Early

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A lot has been written about Joe Ferrara today and this piece is an excellent example of why Joe mattered to so many.  As I mentioned in the comments, I didn't have the chance to meet Joe in real life, but I knew through others, his blog, and Twitter.  I was enough to have me wake up and feel sad for his family and the RE.net community.  If you get a chance, read his Sellsius blog, stop by the AgentGenius post about Joe, and send some thoughts (or donations) to his family as they cope with the loss of a great man.

Via J. Philip Faranda (J. Philip LLC) Westchester County NY:

Joe Ferrara, perhaps at Rocco's in ManhattanHave you ever known, perhaps when there is a death in the family, the kind of kind soul who steps up and generously gives of themselves? Dinner, picking people up at the airport, a shoulder to cry on, they just seem like an angel in a time of need. Those people have our gratitude.

Now...have you ever known someone who was like that every day? Selfless, kind, generous, supportive and good natured, just because they are? That sort of "angel" is rarer still. In my humble opinion, Joe Ferrara, who passed away last night at the young age of 55, was that kind of guy

If you don't know who Joe was, you should. He was the author of the Sellsius real estate blog and was a real trailblazer on the cutting edge of technology, social media and real estate. I had the privilege of meeting Joe through our shared membership in the Lucky Striker Social Media club in New York City last year and he was a source of support and encouragement. I went to my first Lucky Striker meeting last summer at a time when my blogging efforts had begun to tail off. I felt that I didn't have the time. Knowing Joe's notoriety as a blogger, I spoke with him at some of the meetings and he encouraged me to have fun with it and break some rules. It was just a few brief conversations, but I appreciated his warmth, and by the time I saw him again in December of 2009 at Triple Play in Atlantic City, I had jumped back into blogging headfirst. He noticed, and that was gratifying. 

Triple Play was where I had the opportunity to spend the most time I have ever spent with him, and he was committed to raising the bar in the real estate industry. I loved his observations and insights, and I was proud that he was friendly with me. In the ensuing months, whenever he spoke at a local event, such as Westchester Real Estate professionals (which Joe co-founded with Scott Forcino), I was there. I still have notes on my Droid from the January Seminar in White Plains that was almost snowed out. He wasn't charging any money. He wasn't selling anything. He was sharing his knowledge. That was Joe. 

Westchester Real Estate professionals first meeting January 2010. Joe is on the far right.

As recently as this past month, Joe was in the REALTOR magazine with a piece encouraging agents to take on pro-bono projects- this was something he spoke with passion about in Atlantic City. I wasn't the only one who noticed what a happy enigma this man was (I can count on one hand the number of attorneys I actually like. Joe deserved to be counted twice at that). When he got sick earlier this year, there was an outpouring of support

And now that he has passed away, we should mourn his leaving us. I really hoped I could have been around him more. We are all- all of us- diminished without Joe Ferrara. 

 

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6 commentsMatt Stigliano • August 04 2010 07:05PM

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5 commentsMatt Stigliano • July 08 2010 05:58PM

How to make an offer and get the home you want

 

Great advice on offer making from another local San Antonio real estate agent.

It's not everyday I re-blog something from the competition*, but Robin Rogers of Silverbridge Realty nailed this one.  Making an offer on a home is a big step and although the goal is to get the home for the least amount of money, the goal is also to get the offer accepted.

This is my favorite section of the entire post, something I often speak to clients about:

Consider this: each $1,000 adds about $5.37 a month to your mortgage payment at today's interest rate of 5%. That's $64.44 a year. Is it worth it to lowball the home and risk losing it for the price of a few burgers?

Sometimes looking at it from the seller's point of view can help a buyer understand why their offer isn't as great as it looks on paper.

* While Robin may technically be my competition, I don't view her in a me vs. her way.  San Antonio is a large city and there is more than enough business to go around.

 

Via Robin Rogers, Silverbridge Realty, San Antonio, Texas:

You've looked and looked, and you've finally found a lovely home! What's the best way to go about making an offer on the home that you've chosen to buy? Here are the three methods that have been successful for my clients:

Home in San Antonio, Texas1. The best way to get the home you want is to make a full-price offer. If the home is in good condition and/or is well priced, there is no shame in offering full price. Before you make an offer, I will check on the most recent comparable sales of similar homes, the same ones that an appraiser would use.

If you are getting a VA loan and the seller will be paying non-allowables, or if you need a contribution from the seller towards your closing costs, that amount can be added back to your offer price to add up to more than the asking price. The home would still need to appraise for that amount, however.

Before I submit an offer, I try to find out from the listing agent what the seller's needs are, why they are selling, and what kind of terms they might agree to. If the home is vacant, they might want a quick closing. If they have a lot of furniture and stuff to move, they might agree to a longer closing period or even a lease-back. They might not want the hassle of moving a refrigerator, so my buyer might as well ask for it, if nothing else as a negotiable item. I want to maximize the chances of my client's offer being accepted.

2. The second-best way to get the home you want is to make an offer at less than full price, including any contributions by the seller to your closing costs, but leave the door open for a counter-offer. If the home is in good condition and/or is already well priced, the seller will need time to consider your offer.

Whenever I submit an offer, I write a cover letter explaining that my buyer really likes the home and is qualified to buy it. I don't say anything negative about the property or say the asking price is too high. I assume that my cover letter will be forwarded to the sellers. I attach an up-to-date letter from my client's loan officer and/or a bank statement as proof of funds to close. I explain to my clients that the offer is a sales document, and I try to make it as "clean" and the terms as appealing as possible. I don't impose deadlines or write redundant, unnecessary clauses into the Special Provisions. I include reasonable deadlines for obtaining disclosures, inspections, surveys, and loan approval. I make it clear to the listing agent that my clients are not trying to take the sellers to the cleaners, but are trying to stay in their budget. In San Antonio, an offer of 3% under the asking price is not considered unreasonable, unless the home is in perfect condition.

Home in San Antonio, TexasThe risk you run with a lower offer is that another buyer may come in with a better offer while the seller is thinking yours over. With this method, you at least have a good chance of getting a counter-offer, even if the seller has received another offer. If not, you might get your lower offer accepted, but you may get some resistance down the road if you ask for an extension of the time to close or for non-major repairs to be done at the seller's expense.

3.  The third-best way to get the home you want is to lowball it. If the home is in good condition and/or is already well priced, your chances of getting the home are slim with this method. You run the very real risk of offending the seller, and they could counter back at full price.

It may be different in other states, but in Texas, the seller is not obliged to reply to an offer in a certain time period; in fact, they do not have to respond at all. Your offer can be accepted, rejected, countered, or ignored. If there are multiple offers, the seller can just pick the best one, or go back to all the buyers and ask for their highest and best offer. Then it's basically an auction.

In general, the farther away you are from the seller's asking price, the longer it takes to come to an agreement. And in the meantime, another buyer could be submitting an offer.

If you are trying to get the bargain of the year, it will probably not be this home. If you want a screaming deal, we need to go look at fixer-uppers, foreclosures, or other distress properties, which often (but not always) need a lot of work. Sellers are more likely to consider a lowball offer on a property that isn't in good condition, unless it's already well priced to take the need for repairs into account.

Home in San Antonio, TexasConsider this: each $1,000 adds about $5.37 a month to your mortgage payment at today's interest rate of 5%. That's $64.44 a year. Is it worth it to lowball the home and risk losing it for the price of a few burgers?

Having said that, if you still want to make a lowball offer on a home, I will write it up and do my best to get it under contract. My job as your buyer's agent is to give you all the information I can, as well as my recommendations based on my experience and knowledge, and then to carry out your instructions.

So if you have found the house you want, I recommend choosing one of these three ways to make it your home.

 

Robin Rogers, Realtor, Broker-owner, ABR, TRC, CRS

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1 commentMatt Stigliano • July 05 2010 07:56PM

Spies Like Us: Alleged Russian spy was ActiveRain member.

ABC News - Screen cap of ActiveRain account of alleged Russian spy.Did I just see what I thought I saw?

Last night I was watching the ABC World News with Diane Sawyer, catching up on the usual tidbits - the oil spill, the hurricane, and the Russian spy case.  As a kid who grew up in the 70s/80s and someone who has been to Russia several times, I'm interested in this sort of stuff.  I actually had a former KGB agent as a bodyguard while traveling through Russia and saw the changes in Russia between my visits there, so you can imagine how fascinated I am with the Cold War tensions between our two countries.

As I watched Brian Ross' report about the alleged spies, a familiar site flashed across the screen as Brian spoke about one of the accused spies ties to real estate.  Yes, although the photo is terrible, that is what you think it is - an ActiveRain account.  Seems one of the alleged spies set up an account, but didn't do much with it (she had 980 points).  I checked this morning and the account (a non-Rainmaker account) is still there and has only one blog post.

While it may not be of any importance to anyone, I find it fascinating that there was a (once again, alleged) Russian secret agent right here on ActiveRain!  I wonder if she ever read my blog?  Perhaps she has sent posts of mine direct to Vladimir Putin?  Maybe I'm being spied on right now because I'm typing this?  I love it - intrigue, mystery, and a dash of Cold War counter-intelligence.

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79 commentsMatt Stigliano • June 30 2010 10:49AM

Disclosing Death in Texas

This post originally appeared on www.RErockstar.com on May 26, 2010.

A Place To Rest

Do you have to tell the buyer?

Death is a topic that most people don’t want to talk about in general and in real estate, it’s no different. I’ve been asked a few times about the details regarding death and disclosure in the state of Texas (more specifically, in San Antonio) when buying and selling a home. Questions such as; “This home seems cheap for this neighborhood, did someone die here?,” “It says ‘estate sale‘, does that mean that grandma died in the house?,” or “Do you know how they died?” are common, especially if there’s some indication of death, such as an estate sale.

The Texas Property Code covers this in Section 5.008(c):

Section 5.008(c) A seller or seller’s agent shall have no duty to make a disclosure or release information related to whether a death by natural causes, suicide, or accident unrelated to the condition of the property occurred on the property or whether a previous occupant had, may have had, has, or may have AIDS, HIV related illnesses, or HIV infection.

When a seller (or someone else) dies on or in a property, there is no requirement to disclose – as long as the death is related to natural causes, suicide, or unrelated to the property’s condition (if it is related to the condition of the property, you should be disclosing the defect, regardless of the death). However, the Texas Property Code does not mention homicide (murder), and this becomes a gray area that is often discussed in real estate law circles.

Disclose, disclose, disclose.

It is my opinion that disclosure is the best course of action when it comes to death. I am not an attorney and therefore can only tell sellers and buyers in San Antonio what the Texas Property Code states (and refer them to a real estate attorney who specializes in these issues), but when in doubt – disclose. I’ve never heard of a case where a seller runs into trouble because they’ve disclosed too much.

My view is that you’re better off disclosing the death now, before your neighbors do. Neighbors like to talk and tell potential buyers info they know about a home. No one wants to be surprised by the news of a death on the property, so if you disclose it up front, you eliminate that potential awkward situation when the buyer comes back to you and says “I hear someone died on the property.”

If you’ve experienced a death in your home or on your property and you wish to not disclose the fact to your agent or any potential buyers, I suggest you speak with a qualified real estate attorney beforehand to be sure you don’t run afoul of any laws.

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10 commentsMatt Stigliano • June 27 2010 09:32AM

A past post reminds me of five great blogging lessons.

Luther Cressman and Mike Nowak discussing volcanic ash stratigraphy during the University of Oregon archaeological excavations at Kukak Bay, Alaska, 1964Sometimes you have to look back.

I was searching for a post that I wanted to send someone today and while looking through the lists of posts, I saw one that I couldn't quite remember.  I knew I wrote it, but I just didn't remember what it said.

Taking a few moments to read through it, I thought it was a interesting look at where my mind was (in this case, on September 16, 2009) and where I was in real estate and more specifically, blogging.

I was just about to hit my one year anniversary at AgentGenius and I was reflecting back on a few things I had learned about blogging in the 359 days previous to that post.  Reading through them, they all still hold true to my efforts today.

The five things I had learned?  1. You don't have to be an English major.  2. Your looks are important.  3. Commenting is crucial.  4. It's not just about real estate.  5. When in doubt, read.

Stop by the post, "5 Things About Blogging I Didn’t Know 359 Days Ago" and see if these still hold true for you today.  Are there other valuable lessons you learned along the way?  Any you'd like to share?

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13 commentsMatt Stigliano • June 25 2010 06:00PM

10 Days of Pain for 1 Day of Closing.

A man in obvious pain.Excruciating Pain.

I have yet to meet a real estate agent that is willing to state, "I love lead generation."  It's the one thing we all seem to hate.  Whether we dislike the rejection, the awkward silence on the other end of the phone, or just feel uncomfortable intruding; we all go through periods where getting us to call and convert leads (for the record, I hate that word) is akin to having root canal surgery with a rusty spoon and no Novocaine.

In Chapter 8, "Social Media and Lead Conversion", of Ben Kinney's ebook Soci@l (which you can download for free at the RainCamp page on ActiveRain), Ben discusses his aptly titled 10 days of pain.  When I first read the book, I chuckled over the title of this and thought of how many times I sat in front of the phone about to call a new lead.  Picking up that phone is like lifting a few thousand pounds on that first call.  It's painful.  Every time though, as the conversation begins, I find myself thinking, "why was this so hard to do?"  Conversing with people is something I can do.  It seems picking up the phone is the hard part.  The actual act of lifting the receiver is where the pain is.

The 10 days of pain campaign that Ben Kinney has developed gave me three things to think about - 1) how am I at converting leads, 2) a funny way to describe it (a little humor makes everything slightly less painful), and 3) actionable steps that I can implement (often I find there's a lot of talk about how to convert, but not enough substance in the form of a simple how-to).  While I won't attempt to summarize the 10 days of pain here (you can read about it for yourself), I do think this is something I can personally implement.  One of my goals this year is to really buckle down and get the conversion part of the business a bit more refined.

How much are you willing to give?

Ten days sounds like a lot at first.  That's more than a week!  Immediately after reading the chapter, I thought about it for a few minutes.  Am I willing to through 10 days of pain to get one day of closing?  The answer is obvious?  Of course!  Ten days of pain beats thirty days of pain because I have not closed a transaction.  In my recent time away from real estate, I had the ability to truly look at my real estate business and analyze what I liked, what I didn't like, as well as what was working and what wasn't working.  I was able to step back and look at my business from a new angle - one which didn't require me to deal with the daily work of being an agent (it's easy to get distracted from the tough questions when you're working hard).

Once I compared the ten days of pain to one day of closing, I began to think of it in a different light.  Ten days suddenly seems a little easier to swallow.  We all want more closings, yet we all struggle to do the things necessary to get the leads turned to clients that will get us to those closings.  Tom Ferry and I have been building a plan for the year for myself (thanks to the free coaching calls I received via ActiveRain) and I can already see how implementing Ben Kinney's 10 days of pain will help me implement some of the work that Tom and I are discussing (more on that later).

Looks like I'll be experiencing a painful year and somehow, that's exactly what I want.

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66 commentsMatt Stigliano • June 19 2010 10:20AM

Coaching with Tom Ferry - First Call

Coach Stevens of the Philadelphia FlyersEnjoying my winnings.

I sat down on Thursday to start my month of coaching with Tom Ferry (that I won right here at ActiveRain) via Skype.  I wasn't 100% sure what to expect.  I was looking forward to it, but that was about all I knew.

Tom was downright forthcoming in his assessments and making sure I understood what we were going to be looking at.  He didn't even mention real estate at first, we spoke more about personal life for the first few minutes.  As we spoke, I realized just why he was asking the questions he did.  I'd say Tom Ferry is one part therapist, one part someone you can trust and open up to, one part real estate guide, and one part funny guy.

Coaching isn't something I've ever done before, so I wasn't prepared for the look at other sides of my life (instead of just real estate), but I had promised Tom, myself, and my readers that I would go at this full force and see what I got out of it.  I owe it to all three (especially myself) to observe and report and there is no better way to do so than to dive in and get involved.

Tattooed RE.

I wrote about our first call over at Tattooed Real Estate in the post "First Coaching Call With Tom Ferry."  It's a bit of a light post as I think Tom and I were just getting started.  I have been busy on my assignments (five separate assignments in the first call!), which I will detail a bit more as time progresses.  Overall, I think Tom Ferry will wind up helping me quite a bit, but that remains to be seen.  I'll speak to you in about a week and let you know how round two goes.

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7 commentsMatt Stigliano • June 06 2010 09:58AM