San Antonio's Rockstar Turned Realtor®: Punk Rock and the New Agent - Friendship and Family - Xplode Austin

Punk Rock and the New Agent - Friendship and Family - Xplode Austin

Punk Rock and the New Agent - Friendship and Family - Xplode Austin

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Friendship and Family - Community Amongst Realtors® and Punks.

Punk was not a mainstream movement.  Disregarding the commercial system of the music industry, punk had to find it's own way to build both fans and a distribution network for their music.  In order to sustain their own survival, punks had to build friendship and family amongst themselves, their fans, and the various related industries (record stores, promoters and venues, college radio, etc.).

With real estate, we are constantly building community; whether amongst our peers and the related industries or our clients and residents of the local area.  In order to succeed and excel in our industry we must network, build trust, and become the center of a community that values what we have to offer.

Our need and desire to build this community spirit is vital to our industry and our careers.

For punk rock, this sense of friendship and family was deeply rooted in protectionism.  As the "odd" kids in music, punk stood out like a sore thumb and as is the case with many things that disassociate with the mainstream, punk had no choice but to band together and support each other.  For real estate, I think it's less about protectionism and more about a desire to build a better industry.  Although we all function under the banner of independent contractor and are free to conduct business how we wish, there is a common thread that binds us all together as an industry.

The foundation of all we do.

The spirit of friendship and family in our industry comes in many forms, but it is the core foundation of much of what we do.  Sharing new ideas or discussing thoughts and concepts of real estate, blogging about the latest laws or changes in the mortgage industry, calling an agent when they have a good week or a bad week, helping the families of agents when disaster strikes, reaching out to another agent to say thanks for a referral...I could go on and on with examples of how we are a community.  We function as friends, family, and peers.  In order to improve our industry we must always continue and expand upon this key fact.

It may seem rather obvious that this is true and we all function under this theory, but the purpose of this section is to reinforce this fact and have a reference point for all my other points.  Without the sense of friendship and family keeping us tied together, we lose the foundation of all other concepts of real estate in regards to punk rock.

This post is meant to explore some of the ideas in my presentation, "Punk Rock and the New Agent" from Xplode Austin and is part of a series covering each of my slides in the presentation one at a time.

Comment balloon 6 commentsMatt Stigliano • February 12 2011 12:42PM


Matt - What a great thing to tie into!   and so true we should all be a family and connected and helping each other .... Love your pictures

Posted by Dagny Eason, Fairfield County CT, CDPE Homes For Sale and Condo (Dagny's Real Estate) over 8 years ago

I was amazed to see that I was not subscribed to you --- so I did!

Posted by Dagny Eason, Fairfield County CT, CDPE Homes For Sale and Condo (Dagny's Real Estate) over 8 years ago

Dagny - The sense of friendship and family is huge to our industry.  Look at how we interact with each other at conferences, sites like ActiveRain, via social media, etc.  At the Xplode Austin, I met a ton of people face to face for the first time - people I already considered friends.  Not just friends - close friends.  Some of them know more about me on a personal level than you'd expect...because we've built a relationship and a certain trust.

I met many people, but one that made me laugh at how the social media/in real life connection can be made quickly was JeffX.  We both looked up, said hello (by name) to each other and started talking.  I've "known" him since I started on AgentGenius - almost three years ago, but never met him in person.  Our conversations would have made people think otherwise.

PS I swear you were subscribed before - I think sometimes subscriptions disappear.

Posted by Matt Stigliano (Kimberly Howell Properties (210) 646-HOME) over 8 years ago

Dagny - I have to give credit for the graphics and slideshow layout to Dina Gunderson of Creative Thunder Design (Twitter - @CreativeThunder) and Matt Fagioli (Founder of Xplode).  The large images (related to punk rock) all come from Flickr (Creative Commons licensing) and are attributed to their authors.

I'm not very good with the graphics type stuff.

Side note: The "crowd" graphic for Xplode is also my banner image here and at  Brad Nix (who founded RETechSouth with Matt Fagioli) was the one who suggested I use it for my stuff when I started.  I thought it was a funny coincidence.

Posted by Matt Stigliano (Kimberly Howell Properties (210) 646-HOME) over 8 years ago

always an interesting read Matt!

Posted by Monica Atherton, Your Temecula Real Estate Gal (The Associates Realty Group) over 8 years ago

Matt, contrary to my photo (lol), I identify with the DIY ethics and Punk philosophy in general. In real estate, you're right, we need that comraderie. haha I'm actually listening to Marky Ramone's show on Sirius radio right now.

Posted by Eric Michael, Metro Detroit Real Estate Professional 734.564.1519 (Remerica Integrity, Realtors®, Northville, MI) over 8 years ago